Maybe I'm the one who should be going.
There's Absolutely No Reason for Ed to be going anywhere. He only did what he thought was right. Neither I nor anyone else can fault a man for their conscience. I thought that I was simply adding my thoughts to the frustration already posted by several of the other members in what was written prior to my posting. I absolutely meant no "ill will" towards Ed, and I know that nobody else did either in expressing their frustration either. Nobody wants to see Ed go anywhere.
I entirely agree with Joe in the situation where you are dealing with an individual or family face-to-face. A Public Auction such as eBay is an entirely different situation. It is public, and everyone in the public has a chance to see an item, and to bid on it, which is entirely different than when you're dealing with a person or family face-to-face buying something for yourself or for re-sale.
What my point of my posting was, and what we're forgetting is that Absolutely Nobody of any collecting intelligence level on here or elsewhere did not know what this helmet was. The seller was the only interested party in the whole auction listing who didn't know what it was. Big Deal, let it ride. I'm convinced the auction would still have played itself out to an honest price for her. And I'm sure it still will. I'll be shocked if this helmet does not bring her somewhere between $3,500 and $4,000.00, maybe even as much as $4,500 since the dollar is weak against the Euro, even with it being a wartime helmet. Maybe she should be contacted, and tell her to have Randy & Remy sell the helmet for her on their website? Wouldn't that be in her best interest? Would that make it totally "honest", and totally legitimate? I'm only asking, and not trying to be cynical, or a smart-alec in saying this.
What people don't realize when they feel it is their "duty" to reveal what the identification of something is and show too much interest in the object, is that it can truly mess up the end results. I have seen sellers close auctions, sell off-line, and in the face-to-face business like I deal with in buying directly from families it is a fact that if you show too much interest and tell them too much about the object, it often screws up the sale and the seller decides they want to keep the object. And I'm not even bringing into play the fact of being honest with people in making price offers to them. I'm simply talking about what happens when you give sellers too-much information, or show too much interest in wanting to buy an object. I know and have seen that first-hand. Too much information invariably kills the deal, period. And yes, honesty in dealing with others is always the best course with prices, but too much information and expressing too much interest in the object also kills the deal. Enough said on my part.
All the Best,
Alan